lay a place setting
Dear Prudence,
I have a 32-year-old son who lives by himself and has no current girlfriend. He’s often at my place for meals and he is good company. However, he never helps with the dishes, never cooks or prepares any food. He does, however, help me around the house in many ways, such as fixing my computer, doing small electrical jobs, helping in the garden, etc. I would like him to help me cook and do dishes sometimes, and I think being able to make a meal is a skill everyone should have. Am I wrong in wanting him to do more kitchen things even if he is doing a fair bit of work around the house?
—Apron Strings
Dear Apron,
I agree basic familiarity with the kitchen is an essential life skill for everyone. It’s too bad you didn’t get your son an apron about a quarter-century ago and have him help you with cutting and cooking, and setting and clearing the table. But it’s not too late! Since he’s over frequently, just start including him in the meal prep. “Sweetie, please set the table.” “I could use your help chopping the ingredients for the spaghetti sauce,” etc. If he protests he doesn’t know how to lay a place setting and has never done any kitchen knife work, then tell him that’s partly your fault and it’s time to rectify that.
lay a place settingはどのような意味でしょうか？よろしくお願いします
