My Fiancé's Past with His Cousin

2019/02/27 04:47

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My fiancé and I recently discovered that he and his female cousin had a sexual relationship in the past, and it continued even after they both got married. I'm struggling to be comfortable with this cousin, especially since she frequently turns to him for help. Additionally, her husband is unaware of their past interactions, making me feel like an unwitting participant in keeping this secret.
I'm having difficulty accepting my fiancé's past with his cousin, as they had a sexual relationship that extended beyond their teenage years. This cousin often relies on him for support, especially during conflicts with her husband. It's challenging for me to move past this situation and feel at ease around her, especially since her husband is unaware of their history.
When my fiancé and I started dating, he admitted that he had slept with his female cousin in the past. To my surprise, I later discovered that their sexual relationship persisted even after they both got married. This cousin frequently reaches out to my fiancé for help, particularly during marital issues with her husband. Learning about their ongoing connection has made it difficult for me to feel comfortable around her, as I am unknowingly involved in maintaining their secret bond.

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2019/02/27 05:26 回答No.1

１。calls on himはvisits himと同意でしょうか？　同意の場合もあるでしょうが、下記のcall on others for help にあるように「助けを求める」という意味の場合の方が多いと思います。　https://eow.alc.co.jp/search?q=call+on ２。あと、an unwitting participant in the keeping of this secretの意味を教えてください。　知らず識らずのうちにこの秘密を知る（数少ない）関係者の一人になった、ということでしょう。