An American friend of mine used to say, "My so-and-so is an X." The X often is a physician or a lawyer and that alone tells what type of person you are dealing with.
People of this type often ask when the marriage is, when babies come, and assume that their young ones should treat them with love and respect.
The juniors, on the other hand, are sick of these questions and want to reduce the contact to a minimum, resulting in a "strained" relationship.
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ありがとうございました。m(_ _)m