What to Do When Your Partner Blocks You on Facebook: Should You Push the Subject?
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I have been with my boyfriend for four years, and we have lived together from the beginning. We’ve had our trust issues, but I believe we’ve largely worked through them. However, there is one issue that bothers me: my boyfriend blocked me on Facebook during a fight and refuses to re-add me.
I feel hurt and embarrassed when friends mention things he’s posted and I have to pretend like I know what they are talking about. I also think it’s strange that he won’t allow me to be a part of the most public aspect of his life because he wants privacy.
I’ve tried to talk to him about it, but he shuts the conversation down. Should I confront him and push the subject, or should I just let it go?
push the subject
I have been with my boyfriend for four years and we have lived together from the beginning. He has always been secretive with his cellphone, but I knew the password and would occasionally check the time or look something up. We’ve had our trust issues with both of us doing things the other felt were major offenses (no cheating—that would be a deal-breaker for both of us), but I believe we’ve largely worked through them. I’m happy and satisfied with my relationship, with one exception: He blocked me on Facebook during a fight and refuses to re-add me despite the fight being over. He feels I was using it to “spy” on him. I simply get bored and scroll through his photos or occasionally look at his friends that like or comment on his page if I don’t recognize their name (he has lived all over the world and has many friends). He is fairly active on Facebook, posting photos of our dogs or sharing articles, funny memes, etc. I think it’s extremely embarrassing when a friend mentions something he posted and I have to pretend like I know what they are talking about. I also think it’s weird that he won’t allow me to be a part of the most public aspect of his life because he wants privacy. He thinks we can be in a relationship but not be friends on Facebook and when I try to talk about it he shuts the conversation down. Do I deal with it or push the subject?
push the subjectはどのような意味でしょうか?よろしくお願いします
このpushは、↓の他動詞の3番の「強要する」みたいな意味
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the subjectは、「FB友達の件」なので、、
(相手が嫌がっていても)FB友達になることを、強要すべきか?
Do I deal with it or push the subject?
FB友達の件については、我慢すべきか、無理にでもFB友達にしてもらうべきでしょうか?
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